Have you ever had to wait for someone to hit you up first or reply back to you but they won’t? & you keep checking your phone to see if they did or not & see nothing. You love talking to them & you want to talk to them badly but you wanna see if they’ll think of you first to be the one to start the conversation. So you wait but while you’re waiting, you go online & you see them talk to other people & now you can’t help but feel ignored & it sucks being ignored by someone you pay so much attention to.

I don’t understand our relationship. Sometimes we’re friends, sometimes we’re more than friends & sometimes I’m just a stranger to you. One minute you’re talking to me as if I’m special, next minute you’re talking to me like I mean nothing to you. One day, you pay so much attention to me, the next day you almost completely ignore me. I just wish you would start making sense ‘cause I’m confused. I don’t know what you want.

You meet someone. You guys start talking. You guys start texting. You guys start calling. You guys start getting to know each other. You guys start to hang out. You guys start talking even more. You guys are telling your friends about each other. You guys start flirting. You guys don’t “hang out”, you guys “spend time”. You guys gain feelings. You guys confess to each other. You guys start kissing, hugging, cuddling, holding hands, calling each other names, sexin’. You guys got comfortable. You guys start arguing. You guys start to see the flaws. You guys are crying. You guys are heartbroken. You guys start drifting. You guys think it’s better off being friends. You guys never talk again. Sound familiar?